Warren Buffett is, by all accounts, one of the most successful and respected men of our current age. He is revered as much for his humility and modest manner as for his incredible financial savvy. Through his holding company, Berkshire Hathaway, he has amassed a billion-dollar fortune, billions that he has chosen to donate to charity rather than pass down to his children and grandchildren.
Most of the wills we do at our office involve some variation of the following distribution: if I die first, all to my spouse; if my spouse predeceases me or if we both die at once, all to our kids and/or grandkids. If I leave no immediate family, then to some other family members or maybe to charity or a combination of both. Most common is the scenario where an individual will donate his or her wealth to charity only if there is no immediate family left. The standard is quite the opposite than that espoused by Mr. Buffett.
Now, to be fair, most of us will never acquire the wealth of Warren Buffett and our children or grandchildren will never have the advantages that are inherent in having such a wealthy family, regardless of whether we choose them to benefit from our estate. Yet perhaps there is something to be said for Buffett's philosophy that it is not good for society to give that kind of advantage to individuals who have done nothing to earn it. As he puts it in this interview with MacLean's, "[H]ow can you have equality of opportunity when you hand somebody billions of dollars just because they came out of the right womb?"
Buffett is not the only prominent person who feels this way. Peter Munk, the chairman of Barrick Gold, has prepared his children for the fact that they will not be receiving very much of his $300-million fortune when dies. When Bill & Melinda Gates were doing their estate planning, they contacted Buffett for advice. Their three children will each be receiving approximately $10-million dollars of the Microsoft fortune. More money than you or I will likely see in our lifetime, but not much when you consider that their parents (or at least Dad) is worth close to $56 billion.
Still, the majority of millionaires and billionaires are planning on leaving their children at least 75% of their fortunes. As another article (unavailable online) in the same MacLean's magazine asks, should they?
According to MacLean's, a study of 3,250 successful families showed that the transfer of wealth between generations fails an astonishing 70% of the time. In fact, you can expect that most of your fortune will only last three generations if you leave it all to your kids.
A lot of people try to avoid this fate by tying up the money in trusts for years and years. This may be a good option, so long as you have a Trustee that's going to stick around for awhile (a corporate trustee, for example).
What families need to ask themselves is what they hope to accomplish by transferring all of their wealth to their children. As Paul Schervich, the director of the Centre of Wealth and Philanthropy at Boston College says, "You want your wealth to be productive. You don't want it wasted in philanthropy, you don't want it wasted by family, and you don't want it wasted by taxes."
The best option for having that kind of control over your money is to spend it while you're still alive. Being open with your children about why they may not be receiving all of your estate is another way to try to minimize family conflicts down the road. Always discuss your expectations with them, if you want the money used to fund your grandchildren's education, for example. And let's not forget that charitable donations are a great way to minimize the amount of taxes payable by your estate.
The last thing most of my clients want is for their children or grandchildren to end up as idle youth, with more money than they know how to handle properly. The key is finding the balance so that you can follow the Oracle of Omaha's wisdom: " I want to leave them enough money to do anything but not enough that they can do nothing."
What you do with the rest is up to you...